By now, you've surely heard that First Lady Nancy Reagan passed away this morning at the age of 94. She is remembered as an icon of American political culture, a loyal adviser to her husband, and an advocate for anti-drug campaigns and Alzheimer's research.
There is much that can be said about Nancy Reagan, and plenty of people (with far greater historical perspective than mine) are saying it.
Then, there's the
Washington Post. Oh, WaPo, you really messed up.
The Washington Post's obituary for Nancy Reagan was...scathing? It's weird to describe a news obituary that way, but it seems apt here. Take a look at this lede:
Ouch. Sure, Mrs. Reagan was controversial at times. But "controversy" isn't the defining characteristic of her life (nor is astrology). The public liked her: Nancy Reagan appeared 16 times on
Gallup's list of "Top 10 Most Admired Women."
You wouldn't know it, though, if all you read about her today is the Washington Post.
This quote from a 1992 memoir might very well be true, but it's not the whole truth. Considering that Patti Davis and her mother "remained close in recent years," couldn't WaPo have found a newer quote? Instead, they capture Nancy Reagan's relationship with her daughter as it was 24 years ago. This is not how their story ended - but it's how WaPo chooses to memorialize it.
This is not the only example of how the Washington Post highlighted controversy and reduced the reconciliation to parentheses or a side note. Check out this description of the White House China controversy:
The "ostentation" and the steep price tag comes first. "No public money was spent" is relegated to the next paragraph. Nancy Reagan fundraised on her own, from private individuals, and got something done. It cost taxpayers
nothing. It shouldn't have been a controversy at the time, and reviving it now seems utterly pointless - since no harm was done in the first place.
The article notes that Nancy Reagan's critics called her "Queen Nancy," an interesting historical note about perceptions of first ladies by the public. But on the day someone dies, to bring up the name that they were teased with, just seems tasteless.
Again, here the writer talks about Nancy Reagan not for who she was and what she accomplished, but for how other people talked about her:
She concentrated on her husband when he gave speeches?
The horror! In what world is this some kind of a problem?
This is a news article, not a family-placed obituary. But like any news article, it should have been a comprehensive look at the event at hand. Instead, it makes one want to ask the writer, "What did Nancy Reagan ever do to you?"
I'm not calling on them to take the piece down. They are a private organization, and the right to a free press is crucially important. So, too, is our right to call them out when they commit the ethical violation of allowing a person's legacy to be determined only by her critics. Instead, we should remember Nancy Reagan for being famously graceful - at least one news outlet would do well to learn from her example.